The Girl Who Thinks She’s a Bird called me this morning all upset because the people in her hall were up until 2:30 in the morning, being “so ridiculously loud” that her and her roommates could not fall asleep. The girls have early morning classes, and they only got 3 hours of sleep last night. Poor thing. 🙁 It kinda stinks when she has no control over the noise level in communal living.
I never lived in a dorm, so all I can really do is sympathize. I mean, you’re basically thrown into a situation where early risers and night owls have to find a way to co-habitate peacefully. Have any of your college students ever run across this problem?
In an effort to give The Girl and her friends some advice, I did a little digging. Here’s what I came up with {I’m sharing it, just in case your student is having the same issue}:
- Accept that dorms are noisy, and find a regular quiet place to study. The library is always a pretty good option.
- Buy earplugs. Your new sleep routine might have to include earplugs–they might take a bit of getting used to, but so does communal living.
- Get bold and let your neighbors know–in the nicest way possible, of course. Tell them you have an early morning class on Tuesdays {or whatever} and would they mind turning the music down after 10:00. Assume most people aren’t doing things to be jerks, they just may not have realized.
- Be-friend your R.A. They are there to make sure dorm life goes smoothly. It’s what they signed up for, so if late night music or loud voices are keeping you up, and talking to the culprit didn’t help, you may have to seek their help.
- Use dorm living as a chance to get along with all personalities. Some people are loud, some are night owls, some are reserved, some are tightly wound–no matter what category you fall into, you will spend the rest of your life having to get along with different personalities. Consider dorm living a boot camp for getting along with others–even when you don’t like them one bit.
Okay peeps, now it’s your turn. What are your best tips for The Girl and her roomies? Let me know in the comments below.
~Mavis
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