Maybe there is something wrong with me but I am not a big fan of Valentine’s Day. In fact, I’m pretty much anti Valentine’s Day. I don’t think you need a day on the calendar to tell someone you love them. I don’t think you have to spend $100 on a special dinner out or $50 on a bouquet of flowers that are just going to die in 5 days. I think Valentine’s Day is a “Hallmark Holiday.”
According to an article on Huffington Post, the average person will spend $133.91 on cards, candy, dinner, etc. just for Valentine’s Day. No wonder it has become a commercial push for who can get the biggest part of the market share! That is only slightly less than I have spent on groceries since the beginning of the year. According to CNN.com an estimated 224 million roses are grown just for this one day.
I’ve been married for over 20 years now and to me, “love” is when you ask your half asleep husband to crawl out of bed and fetch you the bag of gummi bears you have hidden in the center console of your car at 10 pm because you are in the middle of watching a Grey’s Anatomy marathon and you’re to lazy to get them yourself. Love is showing your appreciation and affection all year long. It’s forgiving. It’s sometimes messy and infuriating, but it’s always there, day after day.
One day of materialism with cards, chocolates, and flowers just isn’t going to maintain love the whole year through…but it will potentially lighten your wallet. The HH and I just agree: no need to buy each other anything. I say, tell me you love me–that’s free, and it means something…but let’s just save our money for something awesome, like self-purchased gummi bears that you can hide in the console of your car for when you really, really need them.
If you are boycotting the commercial part of Valentine’s day, but still want to spread the love, check out some Valentine’s Day Trivia to woo your partner with {don’t laugh, trivia totally makes people fall in love with you. It’s fact.}
Am I alone here…any of YOU hate Valentine’s Day too?
~Mavis
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